Information for Parents
"Thank you for helping me make my dreams come true in life. I am very lucky to have Dylan."
Why choose surrogacy?
People choose surrogacy because it is so successful. Our carriers are healthy women with a record of uncomplicated pregnancies and a desire to help people who cannot conceive. People also look to surrogacy because their baby can be a genetic offspring of one or both of the parents.
Who are your surrogates?
Our carriers are healthy women who have an intrinsic desire to help someone achieve the dream of parenthood. They also love being pregnant. We look for women who are mature, stable and committed to going through the medical procedures, pregnancy and delivery.
Where do your surrogates live?
Most of our carriers are from Wisconsin.
How do you screen potential carriers?
A potential surrogate must meet minimum requirements, which include:
- Must be at least 21 years of age
- Must have given birth to and raised or be raising a child of her own
- Must be a non-smoker and non-abuser of drugs and alcohol
- Must have medical insurance
If these prerequisites are met, she completes an extensive application that is reviewed by our staff. If approved, the applicant is asked to:
Once these documents are reviewed, we schedule an in-person interview and arrange for the surrogate, and her husband or partner, to undergo a psychological evaluation. We also complete background checks.
How will we be matched with a carrier?
We look at the different personalities involved to find a team that will work well together. We factor in your desires and criteria, as well as your views on critical decisions that may need to be made during pregnancy. We will match you with a carrier who has compatible views.
What will our relationship be with the surrogate?
This is entirely up to you. Some parents keep in casual contact with the carrier throughout the child’s life. Some parents are very involved during the pregnancy and in the delivery room, but the relationship ends there.
How long until we are matched and have a baby?
Most carriers and intended parents are matched very quickly. On average, it takes approximately 15 to 18 months from applying to our program to holding your new baby.
What are the legal issues in Wisconsin with which I need to be concerned?
Surrogacy involves constitutionally protected parental rights and reproductive freedoms, so a detailed surrogacy agreement between your carrier and you, the intended parents, is critical. All agreements and documents related to the surrogacy and parentage are prepared by The Law Center for Children & Families, which represents The Surrogacy Center. Parents and carriers are represented by independent counsel. We are happy to refer you to attorneys.
Why should we come to Wisconsin?
There are emotional and legal reasons to come here. Our surrogates are good, sound salt-of-the-earth women who genuinely want to help others. We will help you through the process with personal attention and professional advice. Finally, at the end of your journey, Wisconsin law allows you to be named on your child’s birth certificate.
Do you help gay parents?
Yes. Parents are parents. Click here for more information.